Aphrodisiac Scented Flowers That Will Leave Your Date Smitten At First Sight

You might be wondering what your next romantic gesture would be. Worry not; this post on how to dazzle your date with flowers and leave her love struck has got you covered. Let's begin, shall we?
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What are Aphrodisiacs?

Does this name ring a bell? of course, it should. If you're familiar with the Greek goddess of love, Aphrodite, then you should have an idea of what aphrodisiac means.

Aphrodisiac scents are aromas that appeal to sensuality, thereby arousing libido, performance, or satisfaction. 

 Aphrodisiacs that were Used in the Past

It was discovered that Queen Cleopatra of Egypt used natural scents like cardamom, basil, and cinnamon to mesmerize prominent men like Roman Emperor Julius Caesar and Mark Anthony.

The Greeks and Romans followed suit. They made perfumes out of aromatic spices for their erotic qualities. They would wear scented oils and floral scents like jasmine, rose, and lavender, adding substances from animals like ambergris (derived from whales) deer musk, and civet.

Love comes in different shapes sizes, and colors, and by this, we're referring to flowers. Studies have shown that particular scents arouse certain emotions inducing romance and are retained in the memory.

Here is the list of relishing aphrodisiac-scented flowers that you must gift to the love of your life:

1. Roses

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Roses aren't a one-trick pony. They can serve several purposes; not only are they used in beauty products like moisturizers, creams, and perfumes, they could serve as a great accompaniment for gifts. Roses possess unique qualities like cis-rose oxide and beta-damascenone responsible for the fragrance they exude. These chemicals are concentrated to the extent that minor secretions into the air can be perceived quickly.

Asides from this, there are cultural sentiments attached to this flower. The Greeks believe in the myth that attributes Aphrodite, the goddess of love to be the creator of roses. According to the legend, her lover's blood (Adonis) and her tears moistened the ground from which red roses blossomed. Since then, roses have been viewed as a symbol of love. Also, Mary the mother of Jesus Christ is said to have loved roses, which is why she is represented with them. To early Christianity—and even currently—it symbolized unconditional love.

Here's another interesting part, it is said that Roman goddesses filled their bathtubs with Roses while others dispersed rose petals in their bedroom. While this could be pricey, it is a romantic gesture that would make her feel like a goddess. The symbolic meaning attached to roses is deeply rooted in color, particularly the red ones. Red symbolizes passion, which when used in the context of love, signifies a burning desire to be someone's loved one.

If you are sitting confused, wondering how to precisely express your feelings toward your date without speaking, watch the video showing how roses can do the trick.

2. Lavender

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Research conducted on the effectiveness of Lavender on the functionality of the human body discovered that lavender either in capsule form or aromatherapy lowered stress, insomnia, menstrual, cramps, depression and anxiety levels, and augmented sexual desire. Purchasing this flower for her would do her a whole lot of benefits as stated above. From this, It can be inferred that they come in handy just like roses.

Studies discovered that Lavender possesses phytochemicals, Linalool, and linalyl, used in essential massage oils that induce a sedating effect and relaxes muscles. Another striking quality of the Lavender flower is its color which depicts royalty at its peaky. Your date will get the memo once she sees it, so make your queen bask in the royal scent of Lavender.

Lavender is said to be the most aphrodisiac scented flower; it has been named the 'herb of love' over time. By increasing blood flow and reducing stress, it contributes to sexual arousal. Women who wear perfumes containing lavender tend to attract men.

To be even more romantic and build a castle in your date's heart, you can offer to plant lavenders in a jar or her garden. Telling her all the benefits would make her feel cherished and secure. The video below might be helpful if you have no idea how to make it work. Now get busy!

3. Sunflowers

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Most people are unaware of the unique quality that this flower possesses. It is widely used for decorations, but it can do so much more such as sexual stimulation. The presence of Vitamin E in sunflowers is what makes them aphrodisiac, just by keeping them in close sight. Also, to feel a stronger impact from the sunflower, you can boil tea from the flower’s petals and drink it.

The luminous yellow color is impossible to ignore—that in itself is the hook. Yellow is a color associated with positivity and warmth, which are exactly the kind of vibes you are looking for with your date.

Now, if you are thinking of placing a sunflower in your date's hair so that her sense organs can perceive the seeds, even more, we must admit you've got game. If being cheesy is your forte, you can walk into the room with Post Malone's Sunflower playing in the background.

If you're the type that prefers to plant flowers then buy them, here's a video that will teach you how to grow sunflowers in 3 days.

Now that you know how instrumental flowers are to one's love life, you should not hesitate a second to add them to your date's gift item. Albeit, it's advisable to ask your date's family or friends for her flower preferences to avoid awkwardness. While you do that, we wish you a great time with your loved one.

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Opinions and Perspectives

Maxine_Luxe commented Maxine_Luxe 3 years ago

Going to start gifting potted lavender instead of cut flowers. More sustainable and apparently more romantic too!

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ReaganGarza commented ReaganGarza 3 years ago

The mix of science and romance in this article is perfect. Finally understand why these flowers have stood the test of time.

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WarpDriveX commented WarpDriveX 3 years ago

Never thought of sunflowers as romantic before but the article makes a compelling case.

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RobertAlexander commented RobertAlexander 3 years ago

Might have to rethink my garden layout after reading this. Time to strategically plant some lavender!

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Mia_88 commented Mia_88 3 years ago

Loving all the historical context. Makes modern dating seem kind of boring in comparison!

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DreamHorizon commented DreamHorizon 3 years ago

The whole Cleopatra angle makes this so much more interesting. Ancient beauty secrets for the win!

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GenesisY commented GenesisY 3 years ago

Tried the lavender tip. Can confirm it works for relaxation, but the romance part might just be the relaxation talking.

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FaithPeterson commented FaithPeterson 3 years ago

Makes you wonder what other flower secrets we haven't discovered yet.

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DylanR commented DylanR 3 years ago

Great info but remember everyone responds differently to scents. What's romantic to one person might give another a headache.

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Kessler_Keys commented Kessler_Keys 3 years ago

Who else is curious about those ancient Roman perfume recipes now?

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MadelineM commented MadelineM 3 years ago

I find it interesting that most of these flowers are also used in perfumes. The perfume industry clearly knows what they're doing.

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Kara-Powell commented Kara-Powell 3 years ago

The suggestion about planting together is actually really meaningful. It's like growing your relationship.

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Eleanor_56 commented Eleanor_56 3 years ago

Pretty cool how something as simple as a flower can have such a powerful effect on human behavior.

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Lang_Ledger commented Lang_Ledger 3 years ago

Bet florists love Valentine's Day with all this knowledge floating around!

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Wonder if these effects work through dried flowers too or only fresh ones?

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ReginaH commented ReginaH 3 years ago

The part about Mary and roses shows how these flowers have significance across different cultures and religions.

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VictoriaB commented VictoriaB 3 years ago

Anyone tried combining all three? Might be overwhelming but could be an interesting experiment.

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I'm going to look at my garden totally differently now. Who knew I had a romance garden?

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Would be interesting to know if different colored roses have different effects. The article only mentions red ones.

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Jocelyn_Blossom commented Jocelyn_Blossom 3 years ago

Fascinating how these flowers work on both psychological and physiological levels.

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ElizaH commented ElizaH 3 years ago

Love the suggestion about asking friends about flower preferences. Saved me from giving lilies to someone allergic to them.

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MayaWest commented MayaWest 3 years ago

My local florist must have read this. They've started offering aphrodisiac bouquet packages!

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Noah_News commented Noah_News 3 years ago

The science behind lavender reducing anxiety makes it perfect for first dates when everyone's nervous.

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HologramHero commented HologramHero 3 years ago

Anyone else amused by how our ancestors were basically using flower power for dating?

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NeonGalaxy commented NeonGalaxy 3 years ago

I appreciate how the article emphasizes personal preferences. What works for one person might not work for another.

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Couch_Column commented Couch_Column 3 years ago

The mix of practical tips and historical context makes this really comprehensive. Saving this for future reference!

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Goldberg_Glance commented Goldberg_Glance 3 years ago

Growing sunflowers in 3 days seems unrealistic. Mine always take weeks to bloom.

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EmmaJohnson commented EmmaJohnson 3 years ago

Surprised they didn't talk about seasonal availability. Some of these flowers are hard to find year-round.

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Stella_Wright commented Stella_Wright 3 years ago

The article could have mentioned jasmine too. It's another powerful aphrodisiac flower with an amazing scent.

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Ifill_Insights commented Ifill_Insights 3 years ago

Actually all these flowers can be paired beautifully with chocolate. I create arrangements for weddings and it's a winning combination.

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Opal_Whisper commented Opal_Whisper 3 years ago

All these flower facts are great but let's be real, nothing beats chocolate as an aphrodisiac.

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RaelynnBurns commented RaelynnBurns 3 years ago

The suggestion about planting lavender together is actually really sweet. Might try that for our next date night.

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Josephine-Kelly commented Josephine-Kelly 3 years ago

Using Post Malone's Sunflower as background music is hilarious but also kind of genius.

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Chloe commented Chloe 3 years ago

I love how the article combines both science and mythology. It shows how long humans have understood these effects.

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The connection to Aphrodite makes sense. Ancient cultures really understood the power of natural elements.

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Noa99 commented Noa99 3 years ago

My partner brought me lavender on our first date after reading similar advice. We're married now, so maybe there's something to this!

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Salma99 commented Salma99 3 years ago

The Vitamin E content in sunflowers is news to me. Nature really is incredible.

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VortexPhantom commented VortexPhantom 3 years ago

Interesting how they mentioned the color psychology too. Yellow sunflowers for positivity, red roses for passion.

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PenelopeXo commented PenelopeXo 4 years ago

Been growing lavender in my garden for years. Never realized I was essentially growing a love potion!

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RickyT commented RickyT 4 years ago

The bit about cis-rose oxide in roses explains why synthetic rose scents never quite capture the magic of real roses.

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Liam commented Liam 4 years ago

I work at a flower shop and we definitely see a spike in lavender sales around Valentine's Day. People are catching on!

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Tyler commented Tyler 4 years ago

Anyone else wondering about the practical aspects of filling a bathtub with rose petals? Sounds lovely but also like a plumbing nightmare.

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The historical details about rose petals in Roman bedrooms are super interesting. Talk about setting the mood!

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JamesMoore commented JamesMoore 4 years ago

Honestly, just the effort of giving flowers is romantic enough. The specific type matters less than the thought behind it.

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BlairRichardson commented BlairRichardson 4 years ago

The article mentions asking about flower preferences first. This is so important! My partner is actually terrified of sunflowers.

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MidnightRider commented MidnightRider 4 years ago

What I find most fascinating is how these flowers affect memory retention. Makes me think about all those first-date bouquets in a new light.

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PurelyDevoted commented PurelyDevoted 4 years ago

I tried the sunflower tea once. It has a subtle, pleasant taste but I didn't notice any aphrodisiac effects.

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SoulConnectionX commented SoulConnectionX 4 years ago

The sunflower tea suggestion is intriguing. Has anyone actually tried this?

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OwenMitchell commented OwenMitchell 4 years ago

I can't believe people are just learning about this now. In my culture, we've been using specific flowers in courtship rituals for generations.

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My grandmother always said lavender was magical but I thought she was just being romantic. Now I understand there was real wisdom there!

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Sophia-Noelle commented Sophia-Noelle 4 years ago

The part about lavender reducing stress and anxiety while boosting desire makes so much sense. I keep some by my bedside and it really helps me relax.

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NeonFutureX commented NeonFutureX 4 years ago

Actually, there's solid science behind how certain scents affect our brain chemistry and mood. Lavender particularly has been well-studied.

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Danielle_Shine commented Danielle_Shine 4 years ago

Not sure I buy into all this flower power stuff. Seems like clever marketing to me.

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SilentRogueX commented SilentRogueX 4 years ago

Surprising to learn about sunflowers being aphrodisiacs. I've always just thought of them as cheerful garden flowers.

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Nadia-Gordon commented Nadia-Gordon 4 years ago

Those Roman goddesses had the right idea with rose petal baths. I tried it once for our anniversary and my partner absolutely loved it!

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Cynthia-Todd commented Cynthia-Todd 4 years ago

Really interesting read, but I'm allergic to most flowers. Anyone know if there are hypoallergenic alternatives that have similar aphrodisiac properties?

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AidenFlores commented AidenFlores 4 years ago

The connection between roses and Aphrodite is fascinating. I've always given roses on dates but never knew the mythological significance behind them.

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SolarFlareX commented SolarFlareX 4 years ago

I never knew Cleopatra used natural scents like cardamom to attract men! Makes me wonder what other ancient beauty secrets we've forgotten about.

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