Why A Little Bit Of Stress Is Good For You To Develop Your Full Potential

What is stress
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Stress is a normal reaction to everyday pressures, which may be closely related to a particular situation or event.

Our body's reactions can be physical, mental, or emotional. Being under a lot of pressure, e.g,  situations when you have a lot to think and deal about, or not having enough control over what's happening. 

So far there is not a clear-cut medical definition of stress and scientist have not reached a common conclusion if stress is the reason for problems or the result of them.

When stress happens, it is trying to say that something requires our attention and that we must take action. Our bodies are created in a way to experience stress and respond to it while we panic.

What causes stress

Dealing with challenges, the unknown, fears, difficult life situations, negative events, pressures, or even everyday chores trigger stress, and whatever else that causes it are known as stressors.

People generally think that stressors are negative, like having to deal with an exhausting work schedule or a strained relationship, but actually, everything that makes us go under a lot of pressure can be stressful.

The stressors can be external factors or internal, self-generated. When you think too much over something that is unlikely to happen or having negative irrational thoughts about yourself and life. 

What are the factors that causes stress in our life
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External causes of stress may include:

Internal causes of stress may include:

  • Pessimism and loss of hope.
  • Being unable to accept uncertainty. 
  • Rigid thinking patterns, being inflexible.
  • Overthinking and thinking negatively about yourself, people, and life.
  • Unrealistic expectations/Perfectionism.
  • All or nothing attitude.
  • Your perception about situations.
  • Our emotional resilience.

Money is considered to be the main reason behind stress according to American Psychological Association (APA) in the United States. While work is the next stressor in Americans' life according to the Centers for Disease and Control Prevention (CDC).

Our type of personality (being extrovert or introvert, perfectionist, type A) and resources we have in our disposition link us to all over the above stressors and may cause stress even independently too. 

Other people have to deal with ongoing stress due to post-traumatic events, sexual abuse, or drug addiction. They need to be treated for PTSD. Others work very stressful jobs, like the military or in emergency services. They too need to be kept under observation for PTSD

But happy events may cause stress as well, the first date, getting married, or becoming a parent. Due to the changes they bring in life, they generate stress. It may be unusually hard to handle because you may experience additional pressure for having to be positive.

What is healthy stress?

What is healthy stress
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Stress is considered to be a mental or emotional strain reaction or tension that is caused by adverse circumstances. People may ask, "How is it that we stress ourselves and how can we know if the stress we are experiencing is healthy or not healthy to us?"

Apart from unhealthy stress that starts to wear on us, causes us fatigue, makes us lose interest in what we enjoy, causes us pain and irritability, healthy stress is short-termed. Let's take an example, a deadline at work or school. In this case, healthy stress is short-term lived, passes quickly, and makes us feel relieved and there are cases that it can make us feel euphoric. 

Feelings of euphoria come after having achieved success and we are enjoying the results. A little bit of short-termed stress may push us forward to reach our objectives in work, school, or life. Although stress is considered at large to have very negative consequences, people feel more energetic and productive when they are under pressure. 

What are the potential benefits of stress?

Creating brain cells
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According to Daniela Kaufer, who is an associate professor at UC Berkley, she relates in an interview with the health writer, Peter Jaret that stress cannot be completely negative, it has powerful positive effects on people as well. She states that stress is a response to a threat, to help us cope with it, and learn from that experience. 

As per the research conducted by scientists from UC Berkley, moderate and short-termed stress can improve alertness, performance, and improve memory. From an experiment with rats, where scientists like Daniela Kaufer work, they look in particular at the growth of stem cells in that part of the brain that is called the hippocampus. It is responsible for the stress reaction, and it plays a role in learning and memory. 

They have found that when rats experience moderate stress for a short term and become mobilized for a few hours, stem cells grow, and these cells form neurons, which are brain cells. A few weeks later, results show that there is an improvement in memory and learning. 

The same thing happens with people. The amount of stress that people can handle increases alertness and work performance. Just like with rats, the growth of stems cells that later become neurons leads to memory improvement and brain function. 

Why is a little bit of stress good

Why is a little bit of stress good
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Someone's experience who suffers from anxiety report that excessive stress causes them to go on an irrational rollercoaster at certain times, but during the moment of stress, she feels energetic and more productive. This doesn't mean she loves stress, but that she accepts the role stress plays in making her more smarter, healthier and stronger. 

There is a tendency among people to consider all kinds of stress as a very negative thing, especially when the overwhelming and too much pressure prevents them from seeing the silver lining. In such cases, people find it hard to believe that there is something good in it. 

I am not trying to say that "stress kills" is not true, or refuse to acknowledge chronic stress outcomes, like anxiety, tiredness, high blood pressure, depression, and PTSD.

Moderate stress is better to welcome with open arms. Only chronic stress or when we feel we have no longer control about the situation then it negatively impacts our general health and wellbeing. 

Stress can play the function of a catalyst in our life when it has low levels or moderate. It can benefit us in different ways because stress plays a positive role

1. It improves cognitive functions

As per the research conducted by UC Berkley, they found that stressful events are the cause for making their brains proliferate stem cells into new nerve cells or neurons.

This process leads to an increase in mental performance after two weeks. Moderate stress levels strengthen the connection between brain cells, i.e, neurons which enable an improvement in memory, brain function, and productivity.

2. It boosts our brainpower

Low levels of stressors activate and produce neurotrophins, a brain chemical, and strengthens the connections of brain cells in the brain. 

3. It increases immunity

In the short term. Dr. Richard Shelton, who is vice chair for research in the Department of Psychiatry at the University of Alabama Birmingham, says: "When the body responds to stress, it prepares itself for the possibility of injury or infection, one way it does this is by producing extra "interleukins" - chemicals that help regulate the immune system - providing at least a temporary boost."

4. It increases our resilience

Dealing with stressful situations from time to time can train you to deal with the future ones more easily. Just like Navy SEAL training, so can be even our everyday chores and experiences, which are not so extreme.

Dr. Shelton says: "Repeated exposure to stressful events gives [SEALs] the chance to develop both physical and psychological sense of control, so when they're in actual combat, they don't just shut down."

As per the research conducted by the University of California San Fransisco in 2013, it revealed that while chronic stress promotes oxidative damage to our DNA and RNA, moderate levels of perceived daily stress protected us from such damage and increase "psychobiological resilience."

5. It increases our motivation

Good stress is called eustress in scientific community circles, and it may be just the right and only thing to get the job done at work.

Dr. Shelton says: "Think about a deadline: It's staring you in the face, and it's going to stimulate your behavior to manage the situation effectively, rapidly, and more productively."

As per the research from psychologist Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi eustresses make us enter a state of "flow", and a heightened sense of awareness. 

6. It enhances child development

As per the research conducted by John Hopkins Hospital, they found that babies whose mothers went under moderate stress during pregnancy had more advanced early developed skills when they reached year two, compared with babies of unstressed mothers.

It is scientifically true that chronic stress harms babies during pregnancy, but the good news is that moderate levels of normal stress, don't hurt the baby, it surprisingly benefits him.

How can stress make you stronger?

How can stress make you stronger
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According to the research of Standford psychology Assistant professor Alia Crum, looks at stress as a helpful part of our life, instead of considering it harmful, it results in better health, emotional wellbeing, and more productivity at work - even during experiences of high stress. 

How we consider stress defines how we react to it. Looking at it as harmful makes people cope with it in less helpful ways, like indulging in alcohol and drugs to "release" stress, procrastinating everything to avoid stress, or imagining dark scenarios. There are studies that show that having the goal in mind to avoid stress increases the chances of depression, separation, losing the job, if people rely on harmful coping strategies. 

On the contrary, people who look at stress more positively handle it in such ways that help them thrive, whether addressing the origin of stress, asking for social support, or trying to find the wisdom in it. "At least half and maybe two-thirds of people who've faced trauma report some kind of positive development or personal growth afterward," says Richard Tedeschi, a professor of psychology at the University of North Carolina at Charlotte. 

He further says: "But those who are willing to face their troubles, rather than avoid and trying to ignore them, are more likely to come away with an enhanced sense of purpose, a deeper sense of meaning, or stronger connections with loved ones than those who aren't." There is an increase in the number of scientists who have started to defend against stress. 

New studies are revealing that if people consider stress as a positive force,  they can better protect themselves from its harms - and use it to learn, grow and thrive. "Our fight or flight response was designed to keep us safe and help us meet the demands we face every day," says Alia Crums. Stress might help people become stronger, faster, more energetic, and even more compassionate.

According to Kelly McGonigal, a business school lecturer at Standford and program developer for the Standford Center for Compassion and Altruism Research and Education, she relates: "Once you appreciate that going through stress makes you better at it, it can be easier to face new challenges." 

Marilyn Tam's story

Marylin Tam is an author, speaker, consultant, and executive business coach. She has a very busy schedule and dealing with all these roles she has to maintain a loving home life, her personal physical and emotional spiritual health, which is a lot to handle. Stress can pretty well consume her trying to deal with all the activities in her life. Furthermore, she is a recovering perfectionist. 

She relates:" OK, we know that stress can be bad for you, what can you do about it? Life is not getting simpler and the to-do list keeps on getting longer. For me what has worked best is to stop. Stop whatever I'm doing or stressing about and ask myself the question, "What is the worst that is going to happen if this didn't work out?" The worst fear in my mind is usually even more dreadful than what really could happen. That gives me the perspective and calms me a bit."

To proceed with the story of Marilyn and how her story has evolved she further relates: "Then I ask myself, is this in line with my life purpose? When we look at the bigger picture of what's most important we realize that the issue we are dealing with probably is not going to kill us or the ones we love. The next step is to assess the situation and determine what can we do to take care of it."

She continues to tell her story and how she copes with her stress. "Breathing deeply and regularly helps to steady my mind and some physical movement, as shrugging my shoulders, moving my arms and walking helps shift my anxiety to allow me to re-center. Once I am more relaxed, the solutions appear easier. Sometimes just stepping away from the challenge for a while gives me a clearer approach to resolving it."  

She continues to find difficulties in handling stress but what she learned during her journey she tells us: "I would be joking if I told you that I'm serene all the time. I still have bouts of anxiety of having to perfect from my childhood-ingrained conditioning. What I am now able to do quickly is to identify the stress symptoms and go into my "stop, ask, assess, breath, resolve" process.

To conclude she says: "Life is a continuous discovery and adventure.  How we choose to deal with each circumstance is up to us. We can choose to recognize and let go of unhealthy stress. May you always live knowing that indeed at all times we have a choice. Your good health, happiness, and life depend on it!"

Final thoughts

We try to get protection and nurture what is precious to us, which can come from family life, workplace demands, or relationships challenges. This kind of stress often may cause behavioral, physical, and psychological issues.  Even if going under excessive stress due to the above-mentioned factors, we must remind ourselves that these demands are not the main cause of psychological strain experiences.

The amount of strain experiences we have in our lives is predefined by whether or not we are in control of the effects of stress. So far people have considered stress as something to get rid of it or their lives once and for all. 

But with the latest researches, we have learned about the other side of stress, and it can be our friend if we understand and embrace it. The secret lies in understanding good stress from bad stress, as long as it's not chronic, stress can be a very positive factor in our life. 


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