10 Reasons You Should Go To An All-girls School

Going to an all-girls school may sound boring, but it really is a life-changing experience.

You may be questioning why going to an all-girls school may be a good idea. I speak from my personal experience, but I loved my high school years in an all-girls school. Not having to interact with the opposite gender and focusing on studying was what I did. There were no unnecessary drama and competition with boys. 

Here are 10 reasons why you should consider going to an all-girls school. 

1. Girls understand girls better than anyone else

Going to an all-girls school means that you are surrounded only by girls. There are some things that only girls understand, so you will always have someone by your side that understands you completely. You can always find someone with the same interests and a person to gossip with. Sometimes, when talking about different topics in a group, girls can relate better to each other than with the male gender.

I made friends with a lot of my classmates, upperclassmen, and underclassmen. Some of these friends are still my closest friends to this day. There are many inside jokes and feelings that only we understand. My friends have always been there to support me and I am there for them as well.

Having someone to understand and support is something that many people look for today. Going to an all-girls school is an opportunity to create strong friendships and relationships because girls understand each other.

bonding with likeminded girls

2. Less drama with the opposite gender 

There is no constant competition with boys. There is also no constant competition between girls trying to appear nicer and woo the opposite gender. There is no constant worrying about who has a boyfriend and who doesn’t. There is also no constant competition on makeup, jewelry, and clothing. 

From my 4 years of high school, I learned to view the opposite gender not as boys to woo and flirt with, but rather just as anyone else. This made it more convenient for me to work on projects with the opposite gender and not worrying about gender differences.

boy and girl drama in school

3. Easily excel in STEM subjects

STEM subjects such as math and science are generally excelled by boys and the excellence of STEM subjects by girls is often overlooked. By going to an all-girls school, girls are given more chances to explore subjects that they like and excel in without worrying about the competition by boys. 

Many girls in many schools excelled in STEM subjects and chose to further their education in college by choosing math and science majors. I also took a lot of STEM classes in high school and I did not have to worry about the pressure coming from competition from boys.

Girls can become more confident in their passions in studying and also break the cultural and traditional barriers of the constraints of women. 

4. More time to spend on studying

By not having to worry about unnecessary things, you can spend more time on academics and extracurricular activities. Spending more time excelling in academics can bring you further in life later on. Going to a good university, getting a degree, and finding a good job in the future all start from high school. 

Spending time exploring your interests and extracurricular activities can help get your mind off academics when you are stressed. Finding something to do to relax is really helpful. During high school, I played basketball, joined Mock Trial, and also did community service around my local community. All of these extracurriculars helped me to relax and explore my interests by also let me experience different things.

girls studying together

5. Less competition builds more confidence 

Not having to constantly compete helped me to build my confidence. I was able to explore different topics and try new things because I knew that I would not be compared to anyone else. I learned to appreciate my successes and failures. I could explore the different sides of myself and this led to me appreciate who I am.  

Building confidence is an important skill to learn and practice. Being in an all-girls school allows you to become more confident because of the comfortable and trusting environment.

The environment can allow you to try out new things and explore your interests and go out of your comfort zone. I had learned to explore my own interests and built my confidence in public speaking because of my leadership opportunities. I was not afraid of being criticized because of the environment I was in and also I believed in myself.

confident girls

6. More leadership opportunities

In a school of only girls, there are more opportunities for leadership positions and activities. The school focuses on developing the leadership skills of girls and gives them more opportunities to develop the skills for the future. There are no boys to compete with, so girls can freely choose what they want to do. 

The younger classmen can also learn from their older classmen as their role models and leaders. Girls can inspire each other to do better and aim for the best. Leadership opportunities can give girls the confidence to try out new skills such as leading, planning, and being confident in themselves. 

In my own experience, I was given the opportunity to be the Association of the Student Body president, basketball team captain, and community service club president in my senior year of high school. This experience made me become more confident in myself and trust my peers and fellow student leaders. I ran for these leadership roles because I looked up to my older classmen when I was a freshman and really wanted to try out and become a role model too.

women leaders in girls school
women leaders in all girls school

7. More involvement in the community

There are studies that have shown that girls from all-girls schools tend to become more involved in the community around them. Girls will become more involved in politics, volunteering, and international events. This is because coming from an all-girls school will give girls more confidence and more awareness of the world around them. 

Girls will become more involved because they will feel that the world needs more change and they will become the person contributing and initiating change. They know that they are confident and believe in themselves. 

From my own experience, I tend to become more involved with the community around me because I believe that contributing to making a change in the community will help the people in the community. This is because, during my time in school, I was already involved in community service and leadership positions which helped me to make a change in the school environment.

girls involved in community service

8. Undivided and unbiased support system 

Being in an environment of just girls, teachers can give their undivided and unbiased attention to everyone in the classroom. There will not be any situations where teachers will be biased towards boys, but everyone will be included. Not only will teachers be supportive of the students, but also girls can support each other. 

In my high school, all the teachers gave their undivided attention to each student and made sure they were understanding the information in class and the support they needed. Whenever I was struggling to understand class material, all my teachers would repeat the information and made sure I understood the material.

teachers supporting girls in all girls school

9. Additional chances to engage in extracurricular activities

Students in an all-girls school strive for the best, not only just in academics but also in athletics, and everything else. They will not just work towards the best, but girls will find their limits and try to exceed do better than their limits. The skills that girls develop in an all-girls school will help them to do better than others in society and believe in themselves. 

I did not just focus on my academics during school, but also spent a lot of my free time doing extracurricular activities and also leadership activities to contribute back to my community. Instead of just focusing on academics, I wanted to exceed my abilities and explore my different interests and develop different skills.

girls engaging in extracurricular activities

10. An environment that teaches you to love yourself

When girls feel comfortable in their environment and become confident in themselves, they will learn to love themselves and love others around them. Being in a safe and open environment where they are not judged for being themselves, girls will become more confident and be able to express themselves more freely in the future.

Being in an all-girls school made me learn how to love myself and become more comfortable with the people around me because of the trust we gave each other. This has also allowed me to go out of my comfort zone and explore different interests of mine. 

girls learn to love themselves
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If reading this article interests you to become a confident and excelling student and enjoy the environment around girls, then you should consider enrolling in an all-girls school. Experiences in an all-girls school are memorable and you will take those skills and experiences further on in your life.

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CodePhantom commented CodePhantom 3 years ago

The STEM opportunities were truly exceptional.

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SilentStorm commented SilentStorm 3 years ago

I appreciate how we could just be ourselves.

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IvoryS commented IvoryS 3 years ago

Those leadership skills still serve me well today.

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SunnySoulShine commented SunnySoulShine 3 years ago

The support system helped me believe in myself.

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SienaM commented SienaM 3 years ago

Community involvement became central to my identity.

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QuantumDreamer commented QuantumDreamer 3 years ago

Building confidence without gender stereotypes was valuable.

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SilentVoyager commented SilentVoyager 3 years ago

The academic environment was intense but rewarding.

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Holly_Dew commented Holly_Dew 3 years ago

I loved the focus on personal growth and leadership.

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GlowModeOn commented GlowModeOn 3 years ago

Those deep friendships mentioned still support me today.

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Ophelia_Dawn commented Ophelia_Dawn 3 years ago

The confidence building was real, but took time to translate outside school.

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WholeBodyHealth commented WholeBodyHealth 3 years ago

STEM subjects were my favorite because I never felt out of place.

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Dove_Whimsy commented Dove_Whimsy 3 years ago

The support system was strong, but maybe too protective.

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ZenAndTonic commented ZenAndTonic 3 years ago

I found my voice in all-girls school without fear of judgment.

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MidnightRider commented MidnightRider 3 years ago

The leadership opportunities were abundant and meaningful.

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Our academic achievements were impressive, but social development suffered.

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Lang_Ledger commented Lang_Ledger 3 years ago

Not having boy distractions helped me focus, but I missed out on normal interactions.

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SimpleLivingJoy commented SimpleLivingJoy 3 years ago

The community involvement really shaped my future goals.

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SelfLoveClub commented SelfLoveClub 3 years ago

That point about understanding each other better is so true.

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The article glosses over the social adjustment challenges.

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Emily-Claire commented Emily-Claire 3 years ago

I appreciate how we could focus on achievement without gender expectations.

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EmmaL commented EmmaL 3 years ago

The friendship bonds were incredible, but the social bubble was real.

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Building confidence in a supportive environment was life-changing.

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MindfulMunchies commented MindfulMunchies 3 years ago

Those leadership opportunities really prepared me for my career.

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GlitchOverlord commented GlitchOverlord 3 years ago

The article misses how intense the academic pressure could be.

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RebelGlitch commented RebelGlitch 3 years ago

I loved not having to compete for attention in class.

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Rhea_Blossom commented Rhea_Blossom 3 years ago

The support system was incredible, but sometimes felt overprotective.

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CelestialKnight commented CelestialKnight 3 years ago

Our STEM programs were outstanding because teachers believed in us completely.

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NataliaM commented NataliaM 3 years ago

The confidence building aspect was real, but it took time to translate to mixed settings.

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Gabriella_64 commented Gabriella_64 3 years ago

I wish the article addressed the social challenges more honestly.

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Stephanie-Maddox commented Stephanie-Maddox 3 years ago

The community service focus shaped my worldview permanently.

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Maren99 commented Maren99 3 years ago

Not dealing with boy drama let me discover who I really was.

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Faith_67 commented Faith_67 3 years ago

The leadership skills I gained have been invaluable in my career.

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Shannon-Boyd commented Shannon-Boyd 3 years ago

I actually found more pressure to conform in all-girls school, not less.

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Those deep friendships mentioned are so true. We supported each other through everything.

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CelesteBishop commented CelesteBishop 3 years ago

The article understates how challenging the transition to co-ed college can be.

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My STEM passion flourished because I never felt like science was just for boys.

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The drama point makes me laugh. Girls can create plenty of drama all on their own!

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Tyler_1991 commented Tyler_1991 3 years ago

Building confidence without gender stereotypes was invaluable for my career in tech.

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Livia_Crystal commented Livia_Crystal 3 years ago

I loved the focus on leadership. Every girl had a chance to step up and shine.

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Lauryn99 commented Lauryn99 3 years ago

The support system was amazing, but it didnt prepare us for real-world competition.

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Juliette_Flower commented Juliette_Flower 3 years ago

Missing out on normal social interactions with boys did affect my confidence in mixed settings later.

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Oliver-John commented Oliver-John 3 years ago

The community involvement aspect really shaped my career path in social justice.

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Blake_1986 commented Blake_1986 3 years ago

I think the article oversells the academic benefits. Good students excel anywhere.

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Leo commented Leo 3 years ago

The friendships I made were incredibly deep because we shared everything without holding back.

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HollandM commented HollandM 3 years ago

That point about not worrying about appearance resonates. I could focus on who I was, not how I looked.

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Renee99 commented Renee99 3 years ago

The article seems to suggest boys are just distractions, which feels a bit simplistic.

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BalancedBeing commented BalancedBeing 3 years ago

My confidence soared in all-girls school. I never felt judged for being ambitious.

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GregB commented GregB 3 years ago

The leadership opportunities were abundant, but they felt artificial sometimes without real-world dynamics.

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JohnSmith commented JohnSmith 3 years ago

I appreciate how the article acknowledges personal growth beyond just academics.

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ThomasSullivan commented ThomasSullivan 3 years ago

The STEM focus was amazing. Our robotics team won several competitions against co-ed schools.

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AubrielleS commented AubrielleS 3 years ago

I actually found more drama in all-girls school. The social hierarchies were intense.

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Mia_Giggles commented Mia_Giggles 3 years ago

The support system was incredible, but I sometimes wonder if it was too sheltered.

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SebastianClark commented SebastianClark 3 years ago

Not having to compete for boys attention definitely let me focus more on my studies and personal growth.

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JamesMoore commented JamesMoore 3 years ago

The confidence building is real. I learned to speak up and lead without second-guessing myself.

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VictoriaB commented VictoriaB 3 years ago

I wish the article addressed the transition to college more. That was the hardest part for many of us.

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The community involvement aspect was huge for me. We were always encouraged to think beyond ourselves.

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Balanced-Bites_X commented Balanced-Bites_X 3 years ago

My grades definitely improved after switching to all-girls. No more trying to act less smart to impress boys.

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Lexi-Ayers commented Lexi-Ayers 3 years ago

The article's point about understanding each other better is true, but it can also create an echo chamber effect.

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Riley commented Riley 3 years ago

I wonder if these benefits could be achieved in co-ed schools with better teaching and support systems.

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VirtualRebel commented VirtualRebel 3 years ago

The leadership opportunities point really stands out. Every club president, team captain, and student government position was filled by a girl.

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Friedman_Feature commented Friedman_Feature 3 years ago

That's interesting about feeling unprepared. I actually found college easier because I was already confident in my academic abilities.

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LenaCooks commented LenaCooks 3 years ago

The article downplays the downsides. I felt so unprepared for co-ed college after graduating.

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I think the confidence building aspect is crucial. Watching my shy daughter become a debate team captain was incredible.

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QuantumPulse commented QuantumPulse 3 years ago

The less drama point made me laugh. Trust me, there's plenty of drama in all-girls schools, just different kinds!

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Lena_Sunset commented Lena_Sunset 3 years ago

My experience shows the article is spot on about community involvement. We were always encouraged to make a difference beyond school walls.

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Kara-Powell commented Kara-Powell 3 years ago

What about social development though? I worry about girls not learning how to interact professionally with males until college.

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Barnes_Broadcast commented Barnes_Broadcast 3 years ago

The support system was amazing at my school. Teachers really invested in our success because they knew we were fighting gender stereotypes.

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Veronica99 commented Veronica99 3 years ago

As someone who transferred from co-ed to all-girls in 10th grade, I can confirm the academic focus is much stronger without distractions.

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ViralStormX commented ViralStormX 3 years ago

I loved not having to worry about my appearance every day. It was so freeing to just focus on learning.

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Celeste_Flare commented Celeste_Flare 3 years ago

That part about excelling in STEM without boy competition feels a bit outdated. Girls can excel regardless of who's in their class.

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Raven_Moon commented Raven_Moon 3 years ago

The article makes good points but seems to assume all girls are the same. Some of us actually work better in mixed environments.

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Whitney-Burke commented Whitney-Burke 3 years ago

The point about understanding each other better really resonates with me. Those friendship bonds I formed 20 years ago are still going strong today.

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AbigailG commented AbigailG 3 years ago

I actually had the opposite experience with drama. In my all-girls school, the social dynamics were incredibly intense without boys around to diffuse things.

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SylvieX commented SylvieX 3 years ago

My daughter thrived at her all-girls school. The leadership opportunities were incredible, and she became class president something she never would have attempted in a co-ed environment.

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Violet commented Violet 4 years ago

While I appreciate the positive aspects mentioned, I think we're doing girls a disservice by sheltering them from real-world interactions with boys. The workplace isn't segregated by gender.

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HaleyB commented HaleyB 4 years ago

I completely agree about the STEM opportunities! When I was at my all-girls school, I felt so much more confident raising my hand in physics class without worrying about being the only girl interested in science.

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